Patient Safety Awareness
Week is a bittersweet time. It can be a
time to celebrate all the work being done in safe patient care but it is also a
time to reflect what we have lost and what had gotten us into this “mess”.
As my youngest son graduates
college with a bachelor’s degree in business management and moves on to become a chef at a
very prestigious hotel many miles away from me, I can’t help but remember with
pride how he came into this world.
Barely hearing his cry at just over 1 pound and 10 inches long, some say
he was born too early. Obviously they
were wrong. He was born just right. At 23 weeks, he wasn’t “supposed” to
survive. But one doctor said I had a
choice. I chose to try to save him. It was obviously the right decision.
His stubbornness to survive
was also the same personality that got him his bachelor’s degree in 2 ½ years,
got him the job he wanted as an intern chef in Kansas City and now at 20 years
old, the job he wanted since he was 4 years old and told me he was going to be
a cook like his grandpa.
I am reminded over and over
of the nurses who took care of my baby, allowed me to hold him against the
rules and allowed me to sneak up a friend for moral support. The consent forms I had to sign for
experimental medications and procedures that would ultimately save his
life. Months on a ventilator has left
little scars and the poking and prodding that was done left marks only a mother
could see. I am proud of him and
grateful every day to the hardworking, caring, sensitive and loving nurses,
doctors and support staff who gave him life.
How difficult it is, at the
same time to recognize at any moment, these wonderful caring people can make an
error or be involved in a situation that can cause the traumatic death or an
injury because of a medication error, an infection or a procedure that may go
wrong.
I have not forgotten that it
is the death of my first son from a preventable medical error that began my
journey into patient safety but I also don’t want people to forget that there
are many lives saved every day because clinicians take chances.
We would probably be more forgiving
of the error were we treated with dignity and respect following an unplanned
outcome. I believe most people are not
as angry at the error itself but at the way patients and their family members are
treated following the event that can cause injury and harm. We rarely think about the pilot who gets us
to our destination safely. But, were
there to be an unplanned outcome, that pilot would be under the microscope.
As we approach Patient
Safety Awareness Week this year, I hope we all can think about how we can celebrate
patient safety and all the good that is happening to help make sure there are
no more bad outcomes. And if there are –
we need to all be part of the discussion to make sure it never happens again.
1 comment:
Well said and very moving post Ilene, thank you for all that you do. You have truly lived the balance and seen both sides. Your wisdom is rare and your input to the movement is necessary for real change. It has been a long haul on a road strewn with obstacles. I cherish your dedication, patience and fortitude, and mostly your gift to be able to have the insight to know the best path to take at all times. You are truly a blessing to every patient and provider in this country.
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