Gentle,
compassionate, caring, warm, friendly, kind are just some of the ways patients
and their families describe the care they receive at hospitals that are patient
and family centered. The skills of the medical team seem to never be addressed. It is the way people are treated that we remember. We expect when flying in a plane to get to
the destination. So, when the service is extraordinary, the staff friendly and
the seating comfortable, that’s what
stands out. The same goes for hospitals,
clinics and at doctor’s offices. Ask almost anyone
what they think of their doctor and they will tell you they like him / her
because they are nice, listen or are friendly.
I
had the opportunity to hear similar stories at the IPFCC conference held in
Minnesota last week. It was uplifting, educational
and moving. It was a week of learning
ideas that “work” or have worked to make a hospital patient and family centered. Making for better outcomes often is based on
communication and the better communication, feeling of acceptance, respect and treated
with dignity builds relationships.
Honest, open relationships can mean better outcomes.
One
woman shared the story of going to radiation with a friend and they dressed up
in costumes. (An appropriate story for
Halloween eve). Soon the others
receiving radiation were also dressing up in costumes and instead of no one
talking to each other, at each treatment there was laughter and friendship. The presentation ended with a slide show of
patients in costumes hugging and laughing.
There wasn’t a dry eye in the room of over 400 people.
What
does patient centeredness mean? It was a
common theme of medical professionals, patients and family members at this
conference. Most were representing patient
and family advisory councils where the patient or the family members of
patients come together and talk about improvements to the hospitals or
healthcare system they use.
Visiting
policy, the human touch, talking eye to eye, how patients share their stories
were some additional topics. Work
groups were formed over lunch to develop an action plan helping to move each
person’s or groups agenda forward.
Breakfast
roundtables were for researchers, PFAC members, nurses, social workers or any
group you may want to start, a sign would be ready at a table for you. Patient and family centeredness can mean
something different to anyone, or it can mean a lot to one.