This blog represents my experiences and my opinion only - often at the bedside.
All posts are short enough for easy reading - therefore I couldn't possibly share all there is to share. This blog is snippets in the life of a patient safety advocate.
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Ilene Corina
Monday, January 30, 2012
Family Centered Patient Advocacy
Family Centered Patient Advocacy
If you are interested in being trained as a Care Coordinator to help the family and friends of the patient as a patient’s advocate please call PULSE of NY at 516-579-4711 or e-mail icorina@pulseofny.org
If you are interested in being trained as a Care Coordinator to help the family and friends of the patient as a patient’s advocate please call PULSE of NY at 516-579-4711 or e-mail icorina@pulseofny.org
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Don't Second Guess Yourself
A Mother's Love
I have been a patient advocate for over 18 years. Starting when my son died 20 years ago but then I had another child 19 years ago and another very premature son 18 years ago. I became Matt’s advocate even before he was born when doctors told me I miscarried, I demanded a sonogram to show he was fine inside of me, and my skills strengthened when I gave birth to matt 4 months early. I spent almost 5 months in neonatal ICU and learned, from the caring nurses, what questions I should ask and how to be heard.
In 2005 a group of people led by PULSE of NY started gathering to develop information we called Family Centered Patient Advocacy and we wrote a book on how family members can become patient safety advocates. Since then another group of doctors a pharmacist, social worker and lay people developed a curriculum to follow the book. To date we have trained about 250 people mostly small groups on and near Long Island to partner with the medical team for the best possible outcome in their medical treatment. I have put in over 600 bedside advocate hours in the last few years and continue learning from people I am supposed to be teaching. It is a never ending “learn fest” when it comes to what can happen, or go wrong in a hospital.
70% of bad outcomes come from poor communication. It’s crucial for patients and their loved ones who care for them to understand the care plan, treatment and medical condition that is being diagnosed or treated.
When my dear friend called to tell me something was wrong with her son, his nails were blue and he was slumped over, she said, it was my first reaction to say “If you think something is wrong, than it is”. She was right. As he lay in the emergency room late that night, long after I left, she asked someone to take his temperature. The nurse could not awaken him. Two more times he could not be awoken and finally the next morning he was intubated and there he stays, days later, in ICU with his mom lovingly watching over him struggling with staff to get answers.
There is no question, if she did not get him to the hospital that night, he would not be here today. They would have all gone to sleep and there would have been no one to try to awaken him. Yes, it was a mothers actions that saved her child.
Don't Tell Me Not to Worry
Don't Worry
Grrrr, The one thing that really gets under my skin is when a doctor (or any medical professional) says to the patient or family member (who is caring for the patient), "Don’t worry” instead of answering the question!!! The mom asked a specific question about the readings on her son who is ICU for the fourth day, where she sits and sleeps each night next to his bed. THEY keep changing the diagnosis, and medication to treat the newest diagnosis and she asks a simple question about the numbers and the doctor, in her pumps and white coat answers, “Don’t worry about that the nurses are here to watch that”.
Grrrr, The one thing that really gets under my skin is when a doctor (or any medical professional) says to the patient or family member (who is caring for the patient), "Don’t worry” instead of answering the question!!! The mom asked a specific question about the readings on her son who is ICU for the fourth day, where she sits and sleeps each night next to his bed. THEY keep changing the diagnosis, and medication to treat the newest diagnosis and she asks a simple question about the numbers and the doctor, in her pumps and white coat answers, “Don’t worry about that the nurses are here to watch that”.
No, here in ICU the nurses walk out of the room and go – we don’t know where for long periods of time. Mom has had to get the nurse when the vent came undone and alarms would go off. Mom was right each time she thought her son had a fever and the nurse didn’t think so but he did have a fever – changing the care plan. Mom has all the records of his past treatments, tests, medications, doctors, allergies, illnesses …. And you can’t answer the questions because you are…… so busy and important?
I would have liked to say, do you think this is the 1960’s where family doesn’t ask questions? Can’t you just answer the question or don’t you know the answer? Aha! That’s it, you must not know because now the mom feels like you have just patted her on the head and said go away little girl. How DARE you not answer her question! But that’s what I would have said, mom wants to keep peace.
Here in this hospital families are asked to leave during rounds and during shift changes. This makes moms and family more anxious. That also is so ancient. Patients who can’t speak for themselves, have a rare disorder and are intubated in ICU need their family there especially when the doctors come around. Studies have proven this is helpful to the patient's safety and care. In ICU when a patient can’t speak or understand what is being said, they should welcome the mother there. She would probably have less questions all day.
One nurse told me it’s about HIPAA, The other patient’s privacy. I told him “Don’t tell me about HIPAA, we hear all day long what’s going on with the patients in the next bed and their family hears this patient’s information. No one is buying media time to report it”. He went back to his desk.
Some articles on including the patient in shift changes:
Incorporating Bedside Reporting into Change-of-Shift Report
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